My Wife Journal #14

Thoughts on a Marriage License

07/15/2026 @ 4:00pm



    One of the thoughts that has played a big part in my life as of lately is the thought of a marriage license through any state. I feel as though it is not okay from a biblical standpoint because it is a sacred covenant with the Lord. I mean as long as the Lord understands and there is a witness, like it is designed biblically and we align with biblical principles than the Lord will honor that without having to go through a court system. My thoughts on this stem from going through an already corrupt system and how things are handled through situations like this whether one divorces, gets a prenup, or etc. I feel as though if we exclusively did it God's way, then there would be no need for those things to be put in place let alone a marriage license. To me a marriage license is a business transaction with the states just like it is if I were to have gotten my license in the fields that I went to school for. I went to 3 trade schools. And do you think I went to go and complete my license in any of those fields? No, I did not. I'm not sure why, maybe because I didn't really need it for the line of work that I did during those years of my life. But back to the topic. I also feel, as if, we have gotten so far away from what marriage is based on that we just like the thrill of being married and calling ourselves a wife or a husband. More so a woman than a man would if I'm honest. 


       Now I do understand we are to follow the law of the land, I get that. However, for some odd reason or another the thought of a license just does not sit well with my spirit. Outside of that thought, it also states in the Bible to have the correct kind of counsel when it comes to this sacred covenant, and I don't think someone you have never met is in the position to be a counsel for me and mines. LoL! I think that is crazy. I have been feeling this way for some time now. My thing is this, I have no plans on divorcing my man no way, because I did it God's way and not through the world's standards so it will be built on a firm foundation. Prayer game on point and love making intact. LOL!!! See that's another reason why I may have slowed down on these journal entries because I am capable of saying what I feel based around biblical teachings and what it says about marriage and SEX!!! And I may have needed to hold off on those things to focus on me and the Lord. One thing about it, is that I'm saved but I'm still human, so I understand that, but i do have self-control and thankfully abstaining is not an issue in my life. I have come to a point where I truly am a zero-tolerance woman of God and refuse to settle for what is not for me including a quick fling. It's just not worth it to me like at all. I am too focused on pleasing the Lord and what He wants out of me to be concerned or questioning if a man is the one or not because, he is playing mind games. Absolutely not!! Not on my watch playboy. You can go play with somebody else, just not with me. LOL! Okay, I was having a moment. But I'll keep it light and cute and sign off for now. I know this marriage license will be a huge topic of discussion when the time is right, but these are my thoughts. I can't say that when I meet you in physical form if my stance will change or not,
but that is something to discuss when God says the same. As of now, be blessed and every day is one step closer to meeting you in the physical. 


Signed, 

Your Wife